假设你离开家乡独自到一线城市奋斗,那么你想一下哈:22大学毕业,24-25研究生毕业(因为现在好点的工作都要硕士学历),然后顺利找到你看得上的工作。 那么一般呢比较好的高薪的工作在一开始就是比较忙的,就算不忙,你也得稍微表现一下吧。你不表现也可以,但是你的同事都是学霸都很优秀很卷,你很可能会被他们影响而卷进去的。因为一般优秀点的人都觉得优秀是一种习惯,上学时候是好学生,上班了以后自然也不想落后,也想升职加薪快快发展,那人家那么优秀还卷,你怎么办呢?直接放弃竞争躺平吗?可你有啥资格躺平啊?你又不是一线城市土著,你爸妈也没有给你铺好路,你在这里也没有强有力的社会资源和人脉,这时候你最有价值的资产就是你的学历、你的青春、你健康的能吃苦干活的身体…… 那么你稍微在职场奋斗一下,你会发现时间过得很快,两年三年四年五年一下就过去了。而你还要在这几年里搞定感情的事情。但一线城市情场也很卷,鱼龙混杂,啥样的人都有。有人条件好但是人品差,有人人品好但是条件差,还有各种海王渣子…市面上浪荡着很多爱玩女人的男的,和情商极低又不怎么会赚钱的男的。如果你没有在同事里顺利遇到人的话,那确实就还挺难的,你越漂亮越优秀,你的要求或者说能与你匹配合适的人就越少……而你这么辛苦打拼,自然肯定是不想找比你自己差的嘛。这个时候就是拼运气,有的人就是运气好很顺利,有的人就是运气很差、老是遇到不靠谱或者不合适的人,当然也有人可能为了完成30岁前结婚这个kpi就着急忙慌找了一个人结果发现跳坑里了后来又离婚。 再加上一线的房价很高,这就更加增加了难度:有房且漂亮的女生绝对不愿意找没房的男的,而一些有房的男的却因为各种缘故找了没房的女生(比如这些女的特别漂亮且很早慧懂得很早找男饭票,抓住了傻二代,趁早锁定了好男)。基本上普通家境(家里帮不了忙)、自己工作能力一般的男人是压根不可能在30岁前就在一线城市买房的,虽然他们可能真的爱那些家境好且漂亮的女生,但是真的不太匹配。市面上确实是好男不够分,有些好的早早就有主被独占了;有些虽然好,但是特别渣,或者干脆就是同性恋… 根本问题都不是什么看人、筛选,是压根就没有足够的样本量可以供筛选。。看似城市人口很多,但是对等且available且精神正常、人品正常、性取向正常的人特别少。纵然你再有眼光再有智慧,也没那么人供你看,这就是所谓巧妇难为无米之炊…… 一些独自打拼的男的以为女的还有嫁人这条路,但是他们没想过真有那么多适合当老公、有房子、人品好、嫁了能幸福的男人可供女人选择吗?too young too simple too naive…收起展开全文 原微博
I wasted an hour or more to sign up a new account for my iTunes, just to buy episode 4, but it has to be a U.S credit card...and this episode's even not available on youtube, The government's really tough.But the fans are unbeatable展开全文 原微博
【冷链物流业市场前景广阔】Thanks to modern logistics services, food from all over the world is now available for delivery. Even food that is hard to preserve, such as ice cream, can be delivered to customers' doors 24 hours after they make an order online. 🔗 网页链接展开全文
//@书生意气: 这是为了保证手机用户能打通911而收的通讯服务费(不管你打不打911),博主没见识j居然以为是警察收的出警费,这么高调训人被狠狠打脸了//@随意人生1121: the 911 service fee is charged to each and every cell phone customer to assure the 911 service is available展开全文
【漫步罗马尼亚】Sinaia is one of Romania's most popular winter resorts thanks to the perpetually snow-covered peaks of the nearby Bucegi Mountains and the many activities available during the cold season, from snowboarding to extreme skiing. 🔗 网页链接展开全文
New iPhones available on Chinese mainland from Oct. 17 - Apple's latest smartphones the iPhone 6 and iPhone 6 Plus will be available on the Chinese mainland from Oct. 17, with pre-orders starting on Oct. 10, the company announced on Tuesday - 🔗 网页链接展开全文 原微博
【终于来了! iPhone 6和iPhone 6 Plus10月17日大陆开售[钟]】iPhone 6 &iPhone 6 Plus will be available to customers in China’s mainland from Oct.17, Apple said on Tue. Both devices will come in gold, silver or space gray. Suggested prices for iPhone 6 range from 5,288 yuan to 6,888.展开全文
iPhone 6 & iPhone 6 Plus Available in China on Friday, October 17.苹果公司宣布,iPhone 6和6 Plus将于10月17日在中国内地上市。iPhone 6和iPhone 6 Plus均有16GB/64GB/128GB三个容量,银色/金色/深空灰三种颜色,iPhone 6售价分别为5288/6088/6888元,iPhone 6 Plus售价分别为6088/6888/7788元。展开全文
现为荷兰队助教的克鲁伊维特愿执教中国队。斯内德打趣:克鲁伊维特可为@中国足球队 踢高中锋。[doge] //@斯内德Sneijder: Maybe Patrick can play center forward for team China! //@克鲁伊维特kluivert: I say China needs more International coaches to lift football! I am available.展开全文
克鲁伊维特表示愿意执教中国队;斯内德凑热闹说,克鲁伊维特可以为国足踢中锋...→_→//@斯内德Sneijder: Maybe Patrick can play center forward for team China! //@克鲁伊维特kluivert: I say China needs more International coaches to lift football! I am available. @新浪体育展开全文
Local water officials say that even with the massive water diversion, the water available to the zone in 2020 will be less than half of what is needed, with potentially disastrous consequences for the local economy. 🔗 网页链接展开全文
【外媒:南水北调或影响地区经济增长】China is about to realize a dream of late leader Mao Zedong to redirect China's river flows to benefit Beijing and other parts of the dry north, but critics say the resource grab by the powerful capital will harm other parts of the country.展开全文
【淘宝现“虚拟女友”服务 能陪聊天能叫起床】Virtual boyfriends and girlfriends are now available for purchase online, where operators simulate relationships through phone calls and text messages for a daily fee, media reported Wednesday. 🔗 网页链接 [吃惊]展开全文
6一个有意思的新特性:Wi-Fi下拨打普通电话,而且双网自由切换!When there's poor cellular reception, people will be able to make regular calls over Wi-Fi. The handoff between the two networks will be seamless. In the U.S., this feature will initially be available through T-Mobile.展开全文
为了解决LINE的登录问题,我同步了facebook的账户登录LINE,新ID是:mq_enslung,大家请重新加我哟。 Since LINE connection is not available in China, I changed my ID to solve the problem, please add me on LINE, and my new ID is: mq_enslung wait for u( ω )ノ 🔗 网页链接展开全文
People who are interested in the event can send a message “I want to join it” to WeChat account szftms, with the responding message visitors can have access to exhibitions. More information is available at the festival organizer’s WeChat account, 福田国际城区影像节.展开全文
【Intl urban images festival to open in Futian Friday 福田国际影像节要来啦】The first International Urban Images Festival•Futian is scheduled to open in Shuiwei urban village Friday evening.展开全文
O la la! 终于在空中用上wifi了 速度还不错哦!ladies and gentlemen, wifi on china eastern airline flight mu5122 is now available. please enjoy surfing in the air! @东方航空@东航95530@航旅纵横@飞常准@东航官网展开全文