If our life is unhappy, it is painful to bear; if it is happy, it is horrible to lose. So the one is pretty equal to the other. (Jean de la Bruyere, French moralist, 1645-1696) 当人生不幸时，生活是一种痛苦；当拥有幸福时，失去也是一种痛苦。两者都一样。(拉布吕耶尔)
